Gifts – Once the guests have been greeted and any games have been played, the bride should be led to her chair to open the gifts. After the shower is over, it is proper etiquette for the bride to thank her guests, not only for the gifts, but for sharing the day with her. The hostesses of the luncheon or party should find the right gift for a bridal shower is to show the bride how much you care. Choose from the bridal registry and select a gift that she might not otherwise receive. Any Bride-to-be will tell you one of her favorite mementos from the A Bridal shower is a miniature picture album filled with a photo of her and each guest (taken at the shower) and a handwritten bit of advice from that guest slipped into the adjoining page. It is also proper etiquette for the bride to give a gift to the hostesses as a special ”Thank You” for the party.
Ideally, bridal shower thank you cards should be sent no more than two weeks after the shower, but even if you forget, it is never too late to say thank you. Each and every attendant is to be thanked whether they brought a gift or not. Do not combine the thank you cards with any other type of card. For example, if two guests came to the bridal shower, and only one had given a gift, send each one a thank you card specifically for coming to the bridal shower, but then include an acknowledgment of the gift given by the one who presented it to you.
We often skip to consider a few important things when finalizing bridal shower cards. Make sure that you keep the following things in mind: 1. Theme – This is one important pointer you need to keep in mind while finalizing the gift-giving party invitation. Bridal shower cards should serve as a miniature of the event. The designing, color and style of the invite should be in perfect synchronization with the theme of the event. 2. Bride’s Preference – Being the guest of honor, it is very important to know bride’s preferences. The cards should coordinate well with her personality, style and taste. 3. Color – An array of colors should be used for the invitation as it reflects the mood of the event. Usually one should go for bright colors as they are more attractive and have an enticing effect. 4. Style – The styling of the invite includes the choice of colors keeping the theme and preferences in mind. Your style should attract and excite the guests. 5. Labeling -It becomes very important to properly label your invite to avoid miscommunication and hindrances in the event.
Cards can be bought either online or through retail outlets. You should carefully choose the card and give special emphasis to the color and quality of the material of the card. There are also many green choices available for the cards so you can buy cards that are made of environment friendly material too. If your friend has planned a green wedding, then this type of card would be ideal. There are many special motifs that can be used on the cards. These motifs reflect the theme of the party, like a lingerie party can have some lingerie motif and so on.
The Custom – The underlying reason for a Bridal shower is that it’s a perfect occasion for family and friends of the bride to spend relaxed time with her before the big wedding day. A Bridal shower is commonly hosted by the maid-of-honor and bridesmaids or friends and family of the bride or groom. The custom is said to have grown out of earlier dowry practices when a poor woman’s family might not have the money to provide a dowry for her, or when a father refused to give his daughter her dowry because he did not approve of the marriage. Another custom was to help the new couple set up a home, or to help the bride get together a trousseau. The Bridal shower kicks off the wedding festivities and it is important that everything goes well.