Because it is a time of much activity, it would be wise to keep the cards in your possession as you go about your busy tasks, so that the thank you messages can be worked on as time permits. Set a goal, so as not to wear yourself out. For instance, write at least four cards at a time, this way you’ll avoid mistakes due to exhaustion, i.e., with the guests’ names, your handwriting, etc.
Place Card Holders – Looking for something that features a dual function? Place card holders are the answer. Practically speaking, if you are on a tight budget, what better way to cut down expenses is to look for an item that can serve multi purposes. Instead of purchasing a real favor that will only serve as a party souvenir, why not consider place card holders that can double as your party souvenirs. They serve as card holders at first and party giveaways at the end of the day. You can find different place card holders with different designs and styles. Just make sure to choose holders that fits the theme of your bridal shower.
Designing and distribution within budget – The main consideration about any particular event starts with the budget. Since bridal shower is part of a series of events that end with your special day, you might want to keep the budget small. It is important to plan your budget in advance so you can get your card designs selected and submitted for printing. You’ll also need to determine the time that’ll be required for distribution of cards. Keep in mind that delay in the printing of cards may increase your spending on distribution of cards because in that case you’ll have to use expensive distribution methods to ensure the timely delivery of cards. Expensive courier services and other delivery methods can easily spoil your budget in such cases.
Remember to thank the host/hostess, and if possible attach a gift to go along with the note of thanks, for all the love and hard work that had been put into the event. The gift could be an ornament, a box of chocolates or anything that would be of value to him/her, and which is not too costly. In the card mention the gift received and the success of the bridal shower with a personal compliment to the person.
The Custom – The underlying reason for a Bridal shower is that it’s a perfect occasion for family and friends of the bride to spend relaxed time with her before the big wedding day. A Bridal shower is commonly hosted by the maid-of-honor and bridesmaids or friends and family of the bride or groom. The custom is said to have grown out of earlier dowry practices when a poor woman’s family might not have the money to provide a dowry for her, or when a father refused to give his daughter her dowry because he did not approve of the marriage. Another custom was to help the new couple set up a home, or to help the bride get together a trousseau. The Bridal shower kicks off the wedding festivities and it is important that everything goes well.